Love is blind they say, and every beginning is special: the butterflies in the stomach, the small things done just for you, little surprises, the burning desire and passion, the first kisses..
However, love is not always easy, and often, when people realize that their partners are actually not perfect as they have idealized them at first, they start suffering. Sometimes, one just needs to be wise enough and let go if it is not worth it.
The truth is in Richard Bach’s words: “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; if they don’t, they never were”.
According to Elite Daily:
“As much as it is physical, love is mainly psychological – we find it hard to let go of some things. Especially when those things are people who were once incredibly important to us. There are people in our lives who have had such a tremendous impact on us – the individuals who we have become – that giving up on them entirely would mean giving up on a part of ourselves.”
Very often, love is worthwhile all the fight, tears, efforts, problems, and issues, but there are also times when you just need to walk away since it is not the real thing for you. If your love is not reciprocated, you need to be courageous and leave before it destroys you completely.
Love is beautiful, timeless, universal, and the essence of humanity. All human beings are capable of feeling, giving, receiving, and sharing love.
Therefore, when you give and get pure, unconditional love, you should do your best to strengthen it and preserve it. In any other case, when your love is hurting you and causes only pain, despair, and disappointments, no matter how hard it might seem at first, just walk away.
There is someone out there who is your soulmate, and is desperately waiting for your love!
True love is interestingly described in the New Testament, 1st Corinthians, Chapter 13, Verses 4-7 :
“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”